Author: Enjoy the Process

  • Do you know what kind of writer you are?

    The advent of digital platforms has provided a gateway for creators to demonstrate their work. YouTube, Instagram, and Udemy are a few examples that creators use to display their craft.

    Texts do not share the same glamour as images and videos. Nonetheless, there is a growing need for well-written words, especially in the digital world.

    Before digital platforms, writers had fewer options to display their work. Writing books was laborious and required access to publishers. Newspapers hired journalists in a competitive market. Promotional direct-to-consumer (DTC) copy required skilled copywriters.

    Digital platforms have taken these pen-savvy people and multiplied their demand. The necessary skillset has evolved, too.

    It is beneficial to understand the various roles writers have. If you are an aspiring writer, you can distinguish your strengths to focus your efforts. If you hire someone to write content, know who to look for to achieve your business goals.

    The different types of writers

    Below is a “small” list of writing-related jobs.

    • Writer
    • Copywriter
    • Content writer
    • Copy editor
    • Communications specialist
    • Journalist
    • Technical writer
    • Content creator
    • Content marketer
    • Content strategist
    • Marketing specialist
    • Ghostwriter
    • Proofreader
    • UX content writer
    • Content designer

    It is difficult to determine where one line ends and the other begins. There could be many overlaps with the roles and responsibilities of the writer. The sheer amount of different titles could be an unnecessary complication.

    So who is who? Are all writers the same?

    Copywriter/Content Writer

    The copywriter typically creates shorter texts (i.e., copy) that center around promotion.  (I must emphasize typically because I will probably offend half the copywriters out there.) The primary intent is some form of persuasion. Generally, copywriters will write slogans, taglines, and other advertising messages. 

    Content writers typically write longer forms of texts. They center around information or education. Content writers create blog posts, article pages, or product pages.

    However, the lines are blurring. Copywriters could write longer forms of text. Content writers can craft short slogans. The digital ecosystem forces its players to learn its rules of marketing. A blog post does not merely serve its purpose for providing information but provides increased search engine optimization (SEO). Social media posts can be short, witty lines or medium-length articles.

    Bottom line: Copywriting centers around promotion and marketing. Content writing centers around informing, educating, entertaining, or convincing. As the core expands, there are much more overlaps between the two.

    Content Designer/UX Writer/Content Strategist

    If the lines were already blurry and definitions not precise, this next group of writers will be even more confusing. It is relatively new compared to copywriting.

    Content designer is a term that is more popular in the UK. I have seen UX writers used more frequently in North America. A core foundation of these writers is design thinking or user-experience (UX) design. If you are unfamiliar with these terms, you are probably not in this category. If your business is not asking questions related to design thinking, this may not be the type of content person you need. These writers employ this particular way of thinking to craft the final written form.

    Content strategists could be classified into this category if they have this particular skill. Content strategists plan, create, and distribute content, incorporating a long-term approach to their work. Thus, an editorial calendar is a common tool of the content strategist.

    What if you utilize an editorial calendar for the design-thinking content you created? And the final piece is a new tagline for a website? Would you then be a UX Designer Content Strategist Copywriter?

    Bottom line: Depending on your specialty, you can define what type of writer or content person you are. There can be many overlaps with specialized skills. As a business, it is efficient to boil down what is needed to achieve the business goals.

    Communications Specialist/PR Specialist

    I previously held the title of Clinical Communications Specialist. I did not question it because it sounded a lot better than just an editor—no offense to those who are editors. You are valuable and highly needed in this field.

    Communications Specialists typically have some correlation with the media and press. They maintain the face of the organization. Marketing Communications Specialists create content that aligns with an organization’s goals. This description is closer to what I did. So my title should have been Clinical Marketing Communications Specialist.

    Communications is “the use of messaging conveyed across any written, visual, or spoken medium to convey information and meaning.” As a Communications Specialist, it involves utilizing this skill to communicate the necessary message internally or externally.

    I believe two differences between Communications Specialists and the different types of writers already discussed are the form of the writing and the relational aspect. However, a Communications Specialist can benefit from understanding the fundamentals of copywriting or employing strategic planning. 

    Bottom line: Communications Specialists may have a relational aspect when creating content that may not exist in content or copywriting. Content marketers would say otherwise because you ought to write for a specific user rather than the masses. Yes, but the fictional user persona is still fictional.

    Others

    Not that these other writing-related professions were not worthy to deserve their own section, but they were more unique to be grouped.

    Proofreaders focus on spelling, grammar and eliminate errors.

    Copy editors focus on quality assurance.

    Ghostwriters will write and not take credit for the work.

    Content creators may have the ability to craft non-written forms of content like video or images.

    Conclusion

    So are all writers the same? No.

    But writers can overlap in many areas. 

    Titles are elusive. If you are looking for a writer, ask what unique skillset the writer has and some samples. If you want to become a writer, think about what you like to write about and how you like to write it.

    Doing so will make it clear what type of writer you are.

  • September 22, 2021

    • Reading: Big Debt Crisis
    • Building: A portfolio
    • Exercising: Recovering (thumb injury)
    • Studying: Macroeconomics
    • Listening:
    • Playing: Chess
    • Writing: Company profiles, social media posts
    • Brewing: Beer at Balzac Craft Brewery

  • July 20, 2021

    • Reading: 1984
    • Building: nothing
    • Exercising: Rowing, Running, Calisthenics
    • Studying: Writing principles
    • Listening: Focus and Study, Voices and tunes in my head
    • Playing: Guitar, LoL
    • Writing: Writing Plan, The Difficulty of Enjoy(ing) the Process

  • The Difficulty of Enjoy(ing) the Process

    The cacophony of existence makes it difficult to enjoy the process.

    Begin

    Enjoy the process birth through a relationship. It is a mantra to remember what is truly important. It was not a wedding date, a legal status, nor a covenantal promise to one another. The most important thing is the relationship itself, to enjoy one another.

    It sounds silly to have to explicitly remind each other to enjoy the process, but the very reason it was necessary was because of how difficult it can be to enjoy the process.

    The northeast wedding culture is very unique: extravagant, demanding, expensive. It puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on couples to meet their own self-created requirements. Family members and other peers who have bought into this culture also put an invisible pressure and false expectation on couples. On top of that, work is demanding, social engagements never ending, and unexpected trials of life always visiting.

    The cacophony of existence makes it difficult to enjoy the process.

    The Process

    Seven years later since the wedding date, the signed legal papers, and the covenantal promise to one another, this mantra could not ever be more true.

    The cacophony has not stopped banging its symbols of noisy existence to interrupt living life.

    To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.”

    Oscar Wilde

    It is a battle to remember to enjoy the process, for everything in life. It is a battle to enjoy one another, or put in a more familiar way, “never stop dating.”

    It is difficult to enjoy the process. It is difficult to enjoy the process for everything in life.

    But why?

    I’m not sure!

    There is probably a psychological and scientific reason, but here is a guess from my best teacher, Life.

    1. Taking people for granted

    Enjoy the process is necessary because it is easy to take for granted the significant other in life. We take for granted that the significant relationships in our lives can withstand the abuse they take.

    “She will understand if I don’t call her tonight.”
    “I’m too tired, can we talk about it tomorrow?”
    “He knows how much is on my plate.”
    “I don’t need to actually apologize, we have a deeper relationship than that.”
    “She is young and resilient. She will understand when she’s older.”

    Perhaps there is some truth to these sentiments and our stronger relationships are strong because they can withstand some level of tension. However, it is only a matter of time that something or someone will snap.

    This is not only true in relationships, but in other facets of our life as well. We can take our health for granted. We can take our work for granted. We can take our lives for granted.

    When we take things for granted, we are in a state of neglect and thus makes it significantly harder to enjoy the process.

    2. Overemphasis on end results and achievements

    The Olympics are just around the corner. If there is ever a time where the end results matter, it is the Olympics. Four years of training, dedication, and sacrifice culminating to the biggest moment of that entire process, determined by mere fractions of seconds. No one gives a crap about silver or bronze, it is only gold that matters.

    I think if I told an Olympian who did not get gold or even placement to enjoy the process, they would tell me to piss off. Perhaps in some circumstances, it is the end result that really matters. But how many of us are Olympic athletes?

    To the non-Olympian, I say enjoy the process.

    “The present is a present.”

    Korean proverb

    The wedding day, as important and symbolic as it is, is only a day. Thus, why fret over one day and create unnecessary tension with the significant other that you want to spend the rest of your life with? Enjoy the process leading up to that special day, but most importantly, enjoy the process of the every day in and through marriage.

    It is fulfilling and rewarding to accomplish a major project or task. But an overemphasis on results or achievements dulls the process it takes to reach that goal.

    By shifting our mindset to be present in the present, we can allow ourselves to enjoy the process.

    Sometimes setting our minds on the end prize helps us persevere through the difficult times. There is much value in “begin with the end in mind…” But I would also add, “… and then enjoy the process.” So maybe even to the Olympian, I would say enjoy the process of training and being disciplined, because there can be much joy in that process. If everything was just for gold, I wonder how disappointing and unfulfilling four years of life can be for many.

    3. The process is difficult

    It is difficult to enjoy the process, because the process itself is difficult!

    Instant gratification does not make this any easier. Everything is instant now. Not just faster, but instant. Two day deliveries is not good enough anymore. Within few hours is the goal.

    I have been more exposed to the food cycle and it is eye opening. We have become blinded by bright lights in the supermarkets, to how easy it is to get food. I am not even referring to the artificially manufactured processed foods, but the organic section on the far end of the store. How many of us plant a seed, water it the right amount, expose it to the right amount of sunlight, add additional organic nutrients to the soil such as egg shells and potassium-rich banana peel water, watch flowers blossom and most wither away, see some of them take round shape, nurture the plant more, and finally harvest a small, plump, red cherry tomato?

    A long sentence, but a longer process indeed.

    Life is a process and the process is difficult. Those of us growing up in the Modern West have been mostly shielded from greater difficulties. We use our wit to find the path of least resistance.

    We avoid the process.

    However, there is an inevitability to the process.

    Thus, I say learn to enjoy the process.

  • Fire is my only friend tonight

    Fire is my only friend tonight

    Rustle in the trees, Big Dipper, Cassiopeia (auto corrected), Love Actually.

    Take me into Outer Space playing in my head.
    Snap, crackle, pop.

    Cool breeze, radiating heat, familiar scent.
    Quiet, wishfully, international chatter from the tent next door.

    Reminiscing, the memories from youth put a grin on my face.
    But they also reveal a hole in my heart.

    Loneliness is a gift from God.
    But it doesn’t feel that way now.

    I wish they were here.
    To talk, laugh, chat, make fun.

    About funny times, about beer, about food, about faith, about nothing.
    I miss them, I miss them dearly.

    Fire, is my only friend tonight.

  • June 1, 2021

    • Reading: 1984, Of Mice and Men, The Way of the Heart, Every Good Endeavor
    • Building: Toddler bedframe
    • Exercising: Recovering
    • Studying: ICT trading, options trading, Financial Accounting Principles
    • Listening: Dante Bowe, The Maker Album
    • Playing: League of Legends, Guitar
    • Writing: 34 Bits of Unsolicited Advice, Essays, Careful Happiness

  • 34 Bits of Unsolicited Advice

    1. Enjoy the process
    2. If the grass is greener on the other side, water your lawn*
    3. Learn to fight well
    4. It is good to be bicultural
    5. Ask questions often, offer opinions less (because opinions are the cheapest commodities, everyone has them)*
    6. New York is not the center of the world, nor anywhere for that matter
    7. Sharpen your saw*
    8. Sabbath does not mean Sunday or going to church
    9. Be the master over your dishwasher, do not let it master you
    10. Begin with the end in mind, thus you should read Top 5 Regrets of the Dying*
    11. Everything in moderation, even drinking water
    12. Do not believe everything that science or religion claims, but do have core beliefs
    13. Your own child’s poop does not smell like roses
    14. Being a full-time parent and caregiver is the hardest job you will ever have to do
    15. Say hello to your neighbors and people in the elevator
    16. Artificial intelligence is not as scary as you think
    17. Be extraordinarily ordinary, especially if you do not or can not be a master of one
    18. Always be learning
    19. True wealth is being content with what you have, but do not grow complacent
    20. Do not place all your eggs in one basket, especially with your identity
    21. You do not live to produce blood, so do not live just to make money*
    22. It is better to drive a Honda with much joy inside than a BMW with little joy inside
    23. Everyone can have and believe their own truths, but there will ultimately be only one truth
    24. Hike up a mountain
    25. Introversion is not an excuse to be anti-social
    26. Personality tests are useful, but do not depend on them
    27. Make your reality better than your fantasy
    28. Bro, it is okay to cry
    29. The present is a present*
    30. There is a fine line between confidence and cockiness
    31. First world problems. Period.
    32. It is not that cool to be able to drink a lot
    33. Beer pong should be played with simple rules, but respect house rules
    34. Having lots of money does not provide one with a sense of purpose

    * Taken or adapted from other sources

  • When I Die

    He found himself understanding the wearisomeness of this life, where every path was an improvisation and a considerable part of one’s waking life was spent watching one’s feet.

    Ralph, The Lord of the Flies

    Begin with the end in mind.

    When I die.

    The finality of the thought put down on paper has an odd peacefulness about the assurance of the event amidst life’s countless unexpected and unknown turn of events.

    When I die.

    In the West, our modern healthcare and developments have removed death from our sight, and a disillusion has quietly settled over our eyes and mind to believe that death is a far-removed occurrence and it often catches many by surprise. But there is nothing more certain about life than the fact that we will all die. When that will happen to whom, no one can predict (except maybe actuaries working at life insurance companies).

    When I die… When I die.

    Despite such a finality to life as we know it, the big and dark unknown of what comes next is the big life question that countless philosophers, theologians, and scientists have sought to answer. While I have some speculation on the matter, I only have full confidence to speak on what happens on this side of heaven and earth and from that lens, death is the end and where I shall begin.

    When I die.

    When I die, I want to die with a strong and healthy body. Despite the odds of getting cancer or the myriad of terminal illnesses these days, I want to do my best to prevent the most common issues, such as hypertension, hypercholesterolemia, diabetes mellitus, and the most overlooked risk factor to a healthy life, stress. I don’t need to look like a body builder, but I want a strong heart, powerful lungs, stable core, and clean blood. I want to die without major complications, without having to be bedridden in a hospital or at home. I want to be able to move freely, enjoy walks, give hugs, and smile with a full set of teeth. I want to die saying, I have honoured and taken good care of my body and the gift it has given me since my youth to whatever older age.

    When I die, I want to die with a heart full of peace and love. I want to die without harbouring any resent towards anyone. I want to die knowing that I loved my wife with all my heart, that I have committed myself to her since we first said, “I do.” I want to die having those around me feeling known and loved by me. I want my daughter to not have any daddy issues and grow up being covered in love, balanced with discipline and self-control, and to be a highly functioning person in the society she chooses to be a part of. I want my family members to feel as if they had a good son and son-in-law. I want my brother and brother-in-law to feel as if they had a good brother. I want my friends to feel that I have put them first and loved them before they chose to love me. I want my neighbours to feel loved as how I have loved myself. I want those whom I have come across to have known a little bit more goodness in their lives. I don’t need to be the most liked person, nor be known as the friendliest or happiest. I want to be remembered as someone who has enriched the lives of others within my circle of influence.

    When I die, I want to die with a sharp and clear mind. I want to remember all the great memories, both happy and challenging times of life. I want to be able to ponder the greater mysteries of this life. I hope to have answered some of the complexities with greater assurance, yet have a humble curiosity, letting go of the unnecessary pursuits from my youth. When I die, I want to have read all the books I desired. I want to have travelled the many adventures through space, wilderness, and fantasy lands. I want to have met the many great men and women of past. I want to know the powers of the “Masters of the Universe.” When I die, I hope to have left some small value to the next generation, to the ongoing narrative of history, leaving a bit of the culture and perspective of the era I lived in. I hope my thoughts can be transmitted in whatever medium to give inspiration, thought, and challenge to even one other person. I hope the numerous, endless nights of swimming in my own thoughts will not be a waste. Perhaps there are a handful of golden nuggets in the quagmire of opinions. When I die, I hope to still have had an open-mind, not bent on my own ways or become cynical and stale. I want to die, still asking questions and listening to the many stories and experiences others all have.

    When I die, I want to die by living a life centred around the rhythm of Sabbath. I want my work to be worshipful and my days of rest to be honouring to the Creator God. I want to die knowing the mystery of God a little more. I want to die with the hope of hearing, “good and faithful servant.” When I die, I hope my theological understanding of life may not be stagnant, but alive and vibrant as the days of my youth. I hope those around me may have benefited from fresh perspective and will have deepened their relation with a living God. When I die, I hope many will be practicing radically, ordinary hospitality. I hope there will be no Sunday-Monday gap. I hope tithing is more than 10% of post-tax income. I hope truncated versions of religion will have more meat around the bones. I hope when I die, at the least, those who have ears to hear would have benefited from the seemingly, meaningless pursuit and journey I am on. I hope when I die, I will not have turned from faith, regardless of the endless ideologies being thrown my way. I hope I can keep my soul pure and centred around Creator God, in anticipation of Jesus to usher in the new creation, and bringing the ultimate finality to death and to new life.

    When I die.

    I want to have no regrets. And that means now, since I don’t know when I will die. I want to live this way now.

    This goal is not a destination. The goal is a direction.

    I want to participate in creating a new creation in this manner, with my whole life and at the end of it, to be satisfied, having done my best to live a full life, not taking any of it for granted.

    When I die.

    Inspirations

    • The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
    • Mark, Counseler
    • Shiyon, Mentor
    • Gospel Comes with a House Key
    • The Misson of God
    • The Mission of God’s People
    • Top 5 Regrets of the Dying
    • Ender’s Game
    • Lord of the Rings
    • Hospital Playlist, Netflix
    • Tuesday with Morrie
    • Bible
    • Simplifying the Money Conversation
    • Gina, Wife
  • April 20, 2021

    • Reading: The Lord of the Flies, Hebrews, Forgotten Ways Handbook
    • Building: Toddler bedframe
    • Exercising: 22min Hardcore
    • Studying: ICT trading
    • Listening: The Greatest Showman, Mood Booster
    • Playing: League of Legends
    • Cooking: Curry, Pizza
    • Writing: Essays, Careful Happiness

  • January 13, 2021

    • Reading: Devolution: A Firsthand Account of the Rainier Sasquatch Massacre, Max Brooks; On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft, Stephen King; Proverbs; Lamentations
    • Building: –
    • Exercising: 3x/week body weight circuit, stretching
    • Studying: ICT trading, Babypips
    • Listening: The Daily, Voice of God – Dante Bowe, Calming Classical
    • Playing: League of Legends, Catan
    • Cooking: Chicken tacos, St. Louis Ribs
    • Writing: Essays, Careful Happiness